Homeschooling~Why or Why Not?

While there are several homeschooling families in our area (and growing!), I still get the wide eyes when I tell people that we homeschool.  When I tell them that we send one of our kids to a public school, many can't believe it.  Why would we homeschool some of our kids, but not all?

Homeschooling is a very personal decision.  Many factors went into our decision of whether or not to keep our kids home.  This is not a decision that any homeschooling family takes lightly.  We know our kids and want what is best for them. 

Our middlest child is on the autism spectrum.  He also has a physical disability.  He see's a psychologist and a psychiatrist to help him sort through his emotions and behaviors, and physical and occupational therapists to help with his disability.  He has certain needs that must be met for him to function well during the day.  Some of these needs just can not be met with homeschooling, especially since I'm also teaching 3 other kiddo's.  He benefits greatly from the services he receives from our public school.

Our oldest son struggles with an un~diagnosed learning disability.  He was struggling in a school that thinks all children should fit into one mold and learn the same way at the same pace.  He actually asked if we would homeschool him.  At home he can learn at his own pace, and in a way that is easier for him to learn.  He benefits greatly from homeschooling.

This is just a couple of examples from our family.  Every family has a story.  The point is that we love our children and want them to blossom.  There are benefits and disadvantages to take into consideration.   And just because something is working now, doesn't mean it will in a few years. 

Let's encourage one another in our decisions for our families.  Don't judge others because they are not making the same choice for their children that you make for yours.  You never know what is going on in those families and how hurtful your responses may be to them.

Blessings,

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31

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Note To Self~~LIGHTEN UP!!

Life isn't about schedules or timelines.  Life is about living and sometimes letting the little things go.

When kiddo's just want to play in their pj's instead of starting schoolwork~~~don't always say NO!

When kiddo's make a huge mess of the living room~~Send a quick prayer thanking God for this mess.

Getting out EVERY one of my pots and pans to use as drums?  Go ahead!

Enjoy THIS moment.

It's gone much to fast!

LIGHTEN UP!

They are so worth it!

Blessings,

So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31

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Groceries~~Sticking To Our Budget

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Sticking to a budget while grocery shopping for a large family can sometimes be difficult.  Food prices are going higher at a rate faster than our income!  I told you how we do our grocery shopping, but sometimes the bigger question is how do we stay within our budget?  Here's a few tips I've learned over the years...

• Make A Budget!  I know this sounds like a no~brainer, but sadly I went for years just getting groceries and had no idea how much we were spending at the end of the month!
• Use coupons!  I don't go crazy with the coupons, but I do use them.  We get a flyer in our Saturday paper, and my parents get 2 papers with the weekly coupons that they give to me.  When I have time (!) I go through them and put them into my coupon organizer.  Our local stores are beginning to accept internet coupons now, so I'll look up coupons at my Inbox Dollars account.  They use coupons from Coupons.com plus I get 10cents back for every coupon I use.
• Make a menu then make a grocery list.  When I was first married, I just went to the store and got "stuff".  Then when it was time to make a meal, I'd be rummaging through our cabinets trying to find enough ingredients to make something.  Now I always know what we are going to have for supper, and I know that we have the ingredients to make it.  This is not only a money saver, but a time saver as well!
• Keep track while you are shopping.  I write down the amount of items right on my list and keep a running tab so I know what my total so far is.  If I am getting close to or over my limit,  I start re~evaluating things.  Sometimes I do go over, but then the next time I need to go under.  It's about balance sometimes.
• Know what is cheaper.  We've all been told that the larger item is usually cheaper.  But what if that item is more than your williing to spend at the moment?  A larger box of cereal may be cheaper per ounce, but if it is $3 more and would put me over budget, is it worth it?  Sometimes yes, but not always!
• Have a meatless meal once (or more) a week.  Our favorite is breakfast for supper~scrambled eggs and potatoes or french toast.
• Buy items when they are close~dated.  One of our local stores will drop the price drastically when things are a day or two to expiration.  This can be a great deal.  I recently found greek yogurt (usually over $1 per cup) that was 2 days to expiration for 20 cents each.  I grabbed all of them.  Our kids enjoy yogurt, and we had them gone before expiring.  If there is something that can be frozen, buy it and freeze it!
• Use discount stores.  We go to Aldi's to stock up on staples, produce, and dairy once a month or so.  The prices are so much cheaper than the grocery store, and it is the same quality products.
• Don't be a food snob!  I admit to this recently.  I got so caught up in only buying "healthy" foods that I was going way over budget in the name of health!  There needs to be a balance here, too!  Yes, I want to serve my family good, healthy foods, but we don't need to loose the house in order to do it.  Since I rarely serve processed foods, I am more in control of how nutritious our foods are.  We sometimes eat store~bought white bread.  But it is balanced with other healthy choices.  And I am OK with that right now!
• Grow it yourself!  Start a garden and grow your own vegetables.  You don't need to have a huge yard to do this either.  For several years, I had a garden along the side of our garage.  It wasn't huge, but it gave us some great tomatoes, peppers, beans and onions.  This year hubby made me a good size garden, but because of the drought, we didn't get much produce.  Hopefully next year will be better and I will be able to can our vegetables.  There is something so satisfying about eating your own produce.

Grocery shopping while sticking to a budget can be difficult in this economy.  Let me know if you have other great tips!

Blessings,

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31

I Won A Give~Away!!

Michele over at Family, Faith, and Fridays had a give~away last week, and I won!!  She was giving away a copy of Vicki Bently's book The Everyday Family Chore System.  I am super excited about winning a copy of this book.  We have been struggling lately in taking care of our home, and I'm hoping to get some great new idea's for keeping our home in order.  I'll let you know how it helps!

Stop over at Michele's Blog for some great encouragement!

Have a great day!

Blessings,

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31

Snowing In September

We have had such a strange year in the weather department.  Spring came very early this year, then a lot of the plants and trees were damaged when we had a freeze in May.   There was the drought this summer, which we have still not recovered from.  Now this weekend, we had SNOW!!

The kids were going crazy running from one window to another.  The snow didn't last very long, and certainly didn't stick around, but it was fun to watch it for the short while it lasted. 

Oh, and I drove hubby crazy by putting on the Christmas music!  I just love listening to it!

Have a great day!

Blessings,

"So whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God"
1 Corinthians 10:31